Marva Lee (Hayek) Kasl was born January 28, 1938 to Lumir and Evelyn (Vlasak) Hayek. Marva passed away peacefully on Friday, August 8 with her family by her side. Marva was well known and will be missed by many.
Marva grew up on the farm west of Wilber and attended District 51 rural school through the eighth grade. She then attended Wilber High School.
During her sophomore year, her parents moved to Wilber and operated the Fox Hole tavern, then they moved her senior year to the Halfway Station west of Wilber. The Halfway Station was a convenience store before its time. They sold gas, groceries, seed, meals, repaired tires, fixed cars, and operated the bar. They hosted a variety of activities from movies, card games, and more. Marva spent much of her time working at the station.
Marva graduated from Wilber High School in 1955. Following graduation, she attended Doane College summer school and taught for a few years at a country school. Marva met her husband Bob while she was working at Halfway. They were united in marriage on December 30, 1955 during Christmas break. They rented their first home south of Dorchester, where they lived for a few years. They moved closer to Dorchester and rented a farmhouse for several years. In 1967, they were excited to purchase the farm where they built a new home and resided for several years raising their family until they moved into town in 1998.
Bob and Marva had five children, Robert Wayne (Bobby), Sandra Lyn (Sandy), Jeanine Joyce, (Jean), Judith Faye (Judy), and Bradley Alan (Brad). While their family was growing up, Marva took part in many of their activities including Sunday School and Bible School, 4-H, Boy Scouts and of course Junior Legion Auxiliary. Marva was the Junior Auxiliary leader in Dorchester for more than 55 years. She had a passion to teach the Juniors about respect for the Veterans and our country, which brought her much joy. She was proud of all the Juniors and had several Juniors hold offices at the District, Department and National level. Marva was also highly active in the Dorchester Legion Auxiliary Post 264, holding many offices in the Unit, Department and Nationally.
Giving and caring for others with gifts, food or volunteering was Marva. Being a member of the Dorchester United Methodist Church for over 50 years was important to Marva. She served on many committees and was also a member of the United Methodist Women. Marva was also a member of ZCBJ Tabor Lodge and was honored to receive her 50-year pin recently from the lodge. Marva also enjoyed being a member of the Wannanoit Extension club. The family had jokingly called Marva “Marvelous Marva” way before she found out there was a “Marvelous Marva” group, which of course she had to join. Bob and her had fun traveling to conventions across the states meeting many Marva’s. In our hearts she will always be our “Marvelous Marva”.
Marva loved to plant everything! She had a huge garden that grew in size each year. She loved sharing her harvest with care packages for all. She raised chickens, ducks, geese, turkeys, and milked cows. Marva was an amazing baker and thoroughly enjoyed baking for her family and friends. She made numerous kolaches over the years and several Houska at Christmas time. Bob and the boys kept her busy delivering meals out to the fields during planting and harvest. Bob and Marva loved farming and still continued to be active in their farming operation.
Marva enjoyed teaching and helping her children and grandchildren and great children with their 4-H projects. Several family members felt she enjoyed it more than the kids! Unfortunately, Bob and Marva were faced with the loss of three children, Bobby, Jean and Brad. Their loss made them focus on what was important in life, their family. They attended many of the family's activities, which they thoroughly enjoyed watching each of them.
Bob and Marva also enjoyed traveling and were fortunate to travel to Hawaii, Alaska, Mexico, the Czech Republic, Arizona, Colorado and more. They also enjoyed going gambling on occasion. Marva was always lucky and won often, which several times she was unaware of!
Marva is survived by her husband Bob of 69 years. Daughters Sandy (Chuck) Rains and Judy (Mark) Bors. Son-in-law: Paul Essman. Daughter-in-law: Sheri (Kevin) Schuetze. Grandchildren: Cory (Amy) Rains, Megan (Justin) Pekarek, Cassie (Tyson) Vogt, Taylor Bors, Lucas (Chelsea) Apfelbeck, Clarissa Bors, Andrew (Natalie) Essman and Samantha (Chris) Hobelman. Great Grand Children: Carly, Brody, Chloe, Jeplin, Eastyn, Judge, Madden, Burke, Callan, Grace, Chandler, Stassi, Nazaria, Snoh, Sullivan, Grey, Sunny, Lucy, Stevie, Peyton and Hudson. Great, great Grandchild: Cairo and many friends and family.
Marva was preceded in death by her parents, parents-in-laws, and her younger brother of six years, Myron “Peanuts” Hayek, three of her children, and many family members and dear friends.
Services will be held on Sunday, August 17, 2025, at 2 p.m. at Sokol Hall in Wilber. Visitation will be on Saturday from 2 p.m. to 5 p.m. at Kuncl Funeral Home in Crete. Arrangements entrusted to Kuncl Funeral Home in Crete.